Asian women are not big on words. They rather do the little things for their men to show their feelings. Often they expect something similar from their men. Sometimes, the ladies may believe their men when the men are around them, then they go home and feel something missing later. Direct approach is great because women like to hear sugar coated words. But there are some simple moves a Western man can make to keep his Asian woman in his life easily and happily - with less explanation, less pain and less misunderstanding.
- Don’t Start the First Date with Something You Can’t Keep Up With in the Future; Have a Better LONG Term Relationship with LESS Compromise.
- Learning to Enjoy the Homemade Asian Cuisine that Your Asian Woman Cooks for You (What to do when you don’t like it?)
- Listen to Her Unrealistic Dreams without Despise It.
- Be Creative with Conflicts in Daily Lives – A Better Way to Deal with Differences.
- Respond to Her “Meaningless” Text Message with One Word or a Smiling Face
- Stop Hiding Your Wandering Eyes. It’s OK to Look…
- Don’t lose your temper when she’s being silly. It’s nothing wrong to tell her how you feel when she’s being unreasonable. Avoiding her is a terrible idea (to her). A simple kiss on her forehead would calm her down without leave any scratch on your relationship. (Continue reading…)
- Sometimes your Asian woman is sharing a problem, don’t tell her what should she do before she tells you the whole story; before you figure out what she need is a listener or help. Otherwise, she may never go to you again when she has trouble in the future. (Continue reading…)
- Don’t assume Asian Women view your admire the same way Western women do. Give her some opinion about the clothes she wears even by tell her to change her clothes sometimes. (It may sound odd to you. I will explain it in the future post “The strange way of Asian folks take compliments”.)
- Remember her parents’ birthday. If she has kids, remember the kids’ birthday. (It’s more touching to many Asian born, Asian raise Asian women than you remember their own birthdays. Continue reading…)
- Warm up her hands in your hands when she’s cold; hold her hand when you walk cross the streets.
- Get lost in the city or escape to the nature with her from time to time. Creat some memories so you can tell your grandchild one day in the future.
When we think about how to TELL another person what do we feel, often it’s all about talking. Even though we all know the actions speak louder than the words, we talk. I heard people say how nice they WILL be, or what they WILL do in the future; I heard my ex question me for the second chance when they still ACT the same; I heard men tell me that we will be the perfect match AFTER we are together… Many men said they don’t cheat; they don’t like dramas; they are not interesting in women who are insecure…I believe that most of us don’t want to hurt our spouses, but people do cheat, we all experienced drama, men still fall for the crazy chicks, and women change…
How to make our life simpler? What do Asian women really want? Is there any difference between Eastern with Western women? How to keep a Asian lady you adore happy WITHOUT explain yourself? Why women change? How to keep them stay as sweet as in your “Last First Date”? I like to hear your ideas!
